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*Missions ''are'' tough, but many worthwhile things in life are tough. Ask anyone who has worked for years to achieve some goal in their life. | *Missions ''are'' tough, but many worthwhile things in life are tough. Ask anyone who has worked for years to achieve some goal in their life. | ||
*There is not an epidemic of missionaries suffering debilitating physical or mental issues. The site authors seem to infer that going on a mission will break the missionary physically and mentally. | *There is not an epidemic of missionaries suffering debilitating physical or mental issues. The site authors seem to infer that going on a mission will break the missionary physically and mentally. | ||
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Some missionaries do indeed go as the result of social pressure. Some go without a testimony of the gospel. However, the site authors are in no position to quantify just how many missionaries are in this situation. | Some missionaries do indeed go as the result of social pressure. Some go without a testimony of the gospel. However, the site authors are in no position to quantify just how many missionaries are in this situation. | ||
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*A bit of hyperbole is being employed here. Again, this seems to be a scare tactic to discourage one from wanting to go on a mission. | *A bit of hyperbole is being employed here. Again, this seems to be a scare tactic to discourage one from wanting to go on a mission. | ||
*It is well-known that each missionary is assigned a companion, and that they are not supposed to be separated from that companion. | *It is well-known that each missionary is assigned a companion, and that they are not supposed to be separated from that companion. | ||
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*This section links to another page which directs readers to issues pertaining to Joseph Smith, the Book of Abraham, polygamy, Black Mormons and science. | *This section links to another page which directs readers to issues pertaining to Joseph Smith, the Book of Abraham, polygamy, Black Mormons and science. | ||
*It is true that questions regarding these subject may be asked. However, FutureMissionary.com appears to simply state the controversial issues, and provide little in the way of preparation to respond to such issues. | *It is true that questions regarding these subject may be asked. However, FutureMissionary.com appears to simply state the controversial issues, and provide little in the way of preparation to respond to such issues. | ||
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*The authors seem to indicate that having a two year "dry spell" of being unable to date will be too much to bear. If you were in control of yourself ''before'' your mission, enough to be worthy to serve, then there is no reason that the "dry spell" will have any worse of an effect on you. | *The authors seem to indicate that having a two year "dry spell" of being unable to date will be too much to bear. If you were in control of yourself ''before'' your mission, enough to be worthy to serve, then there is no reason that the "dry spell" will have any worse of an effect on you. | ||
*If you are unable to keep yourself worthy ''before'' leaving on your mission, then you shouldn't be going on a mission anyway. | *If you are unable to keep yourself worthy ''before'' leaving on your mission, then you shouldn't be going on a mission anyway. | ||
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*The site displays a photo of two male missionaries holding hands, implying that the gay missionary is going to make a move on the straight one. It is further implies that the gay missionary is sexually repressed, which only solidifies the stereotype of being a sexual predator. The reality is that both gay and straight missionaries are subject to the same mission rules. | *The site displays a photo of two male missionaries holding hands, implying that the gay missionary is going to make a move on the straight one. It is further implies that the gay missionary is sexually repressed, which only solidifies the stereotype of being a sexual predator. The reality is that both gay and straight missionaries are subject to the same mission rules. | ||
*While you may have a gay companion, he isn't going to try to hold your hand like the picture suggests. Such stereotypes of gay missionaries are extremely homophobic. The website authors should be ashamed to represent gay missionaries in this manner. | *While you may have a gay companion, he isn't going to try to hold your hand like the picture suggests. Such stereotypes of gay missionaries are extremely homophobic. The website authors should be ashamed to represent gay missionaries in this manner. | ||
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*This section actually refers to "faith promoting rumors." Those who propagate such tales are not lying. Lying implies a deliberate attempt to deceive. | *This section actually refers to "faith promoting rumors." Those who propagate such tales are not lying. Lying implies a deliberate attempt to deceive. | ||
*We agree that the propagation of "faith promoting rumors" is not productive. | *We agree that the propagation of "faith promoting rumors" is not productive. | ||
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*She probably won't, but some do. One should not leave on a mission with their thoughts focused on who they left behind. | *She probably won't, but some do. One should not leave on a mission with their thoughts focused on who they left behind. | ||
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*This is not true. A mission has the potential to have many more "spiritual highs" than the missionary had before his or her mission. The only way that spiritual experiences would be "few and far between" would be if the missionary were focused on things not related to the mission. | *This is not true. A mission has the potential to have many more "spiritual highs" than the missionary had before his or her mission. The only way that spiritual experiences would be "few and far between" would be if the missionary were focused on things not related to the mission. | ||
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A FAIR Analysis of: FutureMissionary.com A work by author: Anonymous
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The positions that the FutureMissionary article "10 Things every Pre-missionary Should Know" appears to take are the following:
By “best 2 years” they mean “hardest 2 years”. They then claim that they have seen missionaries "fall over from exhaustion, develop medical issues that will never go away, and be bedridden from mental breakdowns."
Not everyone is there for the right reason. The authors claim that "a whole lot of them are there because of social pressures, whether it be from their girlfriend, friends, or family."
Some missionaries do indeed go as the result of social pressure. Some go without a testimony of the gospel. However, the site authors are in no position to quantify just how many missionaries are in this situation.
You are never alone "with the exception of the shower."
Bible bashing gets you nowhere
We agree with this point.
You’re going to get asked some really tough questions. The authors claim that "There are several scary sounding historical events and doctrines that very few pre-missionaries have ever even heard of. Without plausible explanations, you can’t expect them to take a leap of faith and trust you."
Your carnal desires won’t magically go away
You’ll probably have a gay companion
Don’t spread lies, even if they serve a higher purpose
She’s probably not going to wait for you
You will not spend 2 years on a spiritual high. The authors claim that "Just like before your mission, truly spiritual experiences are few and far between."
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